Saturday, October 8, 2011

EVERY COUPLE/FAMILY MUST
READ THIS... A boy was born to a couple
after eleven years of marriage.
They were a loving couple and
the boy was the apple of their
eyes. When the boy was
around two years old, one morning the husband saw a
medicine bottle open. He was
late for work so he asked the
wife to cap the bottle and
keep it in the cupboard. The
mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the
matter. The boy saw the bottle and
playfully went to the bottle
and, fascinated with its color,
drank it all. It happened to be
a poisonous medicine meant
for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the
mother hurried him to the
hospital, where he died. The
mother was stunned. She was
terrified how to face her
husband. When the distraught father
came to the hospital and saw
the dead child, he looked at his
wife and uttered just four
words. What do you think were the
four words? The husband just said "I Love
You Darling" [ U CAN TAG YOUR CLOSE
FRIENDS IN THIS PIC ] The husband's totally
unexpected reaction is
proactive behavior. The child is
dead. He can never be brought
back to life but There is no
point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he
have taken time to keep the
bottle away, this will not have
happened. No point in
attaching blame. She had also
lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was
consolation and sympathy
from the husband. That is what
he gave her. Sometimes we spend time
asking who is responsible or
who to blame, whether in a
relationship, in a job or with
the people we know. We miss
out some warmth in human relationship in giving each
other support. After all,
shouldn't forgiving someone
we love be the easiest thing in
the world to do? Treasure
what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by
holding on to forgiveness. If everyone can look at life
with this kind of perspective,
there would be much fewer
problems in the world. Take off all your envies,
jealousies, unwillingness to
forgive, selfishness, and fears
and you will find things are
actually not as difficult as you
think.

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